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Hello All,
I am a man and love to look at these sites and see what people say. I am embarrassed to say I am a Police Officer who works hard not only at that job but another to provide for my family. I cook, clean, do laundry...to wee hours of the night to help my wife out, as I feel I should.
After 11 years of marriage, giving her what ever it is she wants, as I would do anything for her, she decides to go around sneaking with another married man. She denied it at first, and I caught her in the guys house for 3 hours while she was and should have been at work. I always said I would never deal with it, but loving her as much as I did and do, I tried to make it work. We have great kids, and the thought of not being able to put them to bed kills me.
My whole point is, I did this to my self. I did and gave her everything. She has been emotionally abusing me, yelling at me all the time. If I answered back, she would come up and punch me in the head. I could never hit her back as that is not right nor my style. One day she hit me so hard in the head, I was dizzy, but told her if she ever did it again, I would punch back. She stopped doing that. I, along with many other men, am a victims, just like all the women who are victims. I am at a cross road now. I live in NY and have no where to turn. My nerves are becoming worn around her.
I love her, but feel she hates me because I broke up her thing with the other guy, who was just her friend. If it wasn't for the guy's wife calling me and telling me what they were doing, we would not be in this position. I was told a month ago, I am to much of a family man.
I do love my family and being around them. I don't see what's wrong with that. If someone can please help and give me advise, it would be most appreciated. Thanks for your time.
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